by Dionis Fernandez
So, whats wrong with sex before marriage? "A lot of people look for the correct person, but they don't worry about becoming the correct person."
Would you like your future life partner to be somebody who has slept with a numerous amount of people and knows the body and intimacy of those who will become strangers in your relationship?
Or, would you prefer somebody who wants to have that experience with you and only you because they know that sex is something serious?
Would you prefer spending your life with someone who has been within 50 different relationships, or with someone who has never had a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Does it not sound better if both can be able to learn form each others sexuality rather than permitting your partner to learn with others? Would it not sound better to be your partners first and last? Yours and only yours.
Not every body thinks this way. But be honest to yourself, isn't this better than what common society tells us?
Now I understand that many might say that "nobody waits for marriage anymore". But this is the exact same reason why we have so many problems when it comes to the topic of sex:
The exact same reason why people suffer from so much "emotional baggage". The exact same reason why HIV is a top threat to modern society. The same reason why so many people die from AIDS. The top reason of so many abortions. The seed reason for why more than 50% of all marriages end in divorce because of infidelity .
So, whats wrong with sex before marriage? All that is stated above.
Now a sexual experiences is not just any type of experience. It is something that stays recorded in the mind permanently. When this is lived with someone, that person becomes more than just anybody for you.
When a relationship is over, people tend to say that "it is the past". But the truth is that it's not in the past because the past forms part of your present and your future. What ever was done in the past becomes part of you for the rest of your life consciously or subconsciously.
Proof of this is the knowledge you have of everything you know. This would include the alphabet, numbers, the language that you speak, the people that you know and everything that you do on the daily basis, you owe it all to your past.
So when it comes to live that moment with that special someone, it would be almost inevitable to forget the past sexual experiences from others, staining the present moment with your beloved partner.
Many people are blind to this inevitable truth, but those who realize it view sex with a different perspective.
About the Author
Dionis is the owner of 100QuestionsBeforeMarriage.com, website were many important articles about marriage and pre-marriage questions are posted. Please feel free to visit our unique quality content site at http://www.100questionsbeforemarriage.com.
So, whats wrong with sex before marriage? "A lot of people look for the correct person, but they don't worry about becoming the correct person."
Would you like your future life partner to be somebody who has slept with a numerous amount of people and knows the body and intimacy of those who will become strangers in your relationship?
Or, would you prefer somebody who wants to have that experience with you and only you because they know that sex is something serious?
Would you prefer spending your life with someone who has been within 50 different relationships, or with someone who has never had a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Does it not sound better if both can be able to learn form each others sexuality rather than permitting your partner to learn with others? Would it not sound better to be your partners first and last? Yours and only yours.
Not every body thinks this way. But be honest to yourself, isn't this better than what common society tells us?
Now I understand that many might say that "nobody waits for marriage anymore". But this is the exact same reason why we have so many problems when it comes to the topic of sex:
The exact same reason why people suffer from so much "emotional baggage". The exact same reason why HIV is a top threat to modern society. The same reason why so many people die from AIDS. The top reason of so many abortions. The seed reason for why more than 50% of all marriages end in divorce because of infidelity .
So, whats wrong with sex before marriage? All that is stated above.
Now a sexual experiences is not just any type of experience. It is something that stays recorded in the mind permanently. When this is lived with someone, that person becomes more than just anybody for you.
When a relationship is over, people tend to say that "it is the past". But the truth is that it's not in the past because the past forms part of your present and your future. What ever was done in the past becomes part of you for the rest of your life consciously or subconsciously.
Proof of this is the knowledge you have of everything you know. This would include the alphabet, numbers, the language that you speak, the people that you know and everything that you do on the daily basis, you owe it all to your past.
So when it comes to live that moment with that special someone, it would be almost inevitable to forget the past sexual experiences from others, staining the present moment with your beloved partner.
Many people are blind to this inevitable truth, but those who realize it view sex with a different perspective.
About the Author
Dionis is the owner of 100QuestionsBeforeMarriage.com, website were many important articles about marriage and pre-marriage questions are posted. Please feel free to visit our unique quality content site at http://www.100questionsbeforemarriage.com.
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