How Can I Save a Marriage ? I Don't Want a Divorce

by Anastacia H

It is always a fear of facing a divorce. First of all, I want you to touch your heart and answer this question truthfully. "Do you still love him / her?" If the answer is "Yes, I don't want a divorce" or " I don't know but I still feel for him / her". Please do whatever you can to save this marriage. Especially, if you have children, it is no longer talking about the two of you only because effects of divorce on children is unfair to them because a divorce can greatly affect their emotions and thinking.

Do you know why marriages fail? Marriages failed because of many reasons. These are the top contributing marriage killers.

- Commitment - Lack of communication - Children - Different life aspects - Sexless marriage - Money

Sometimes, it can also be other kinds of reasons that causes divorce. In fact, there are ways to prevent marriages from breaking up. Many times it was because they are not ready for commitments, lack of communication or have not fully understand the true meaning of marriage. However, all these does not means you cannot do anything to your marriage. You need to understand the WHYS, HOWS and ACTIONS in saving your marriage.

WHY - Why did the marriage fail?

Was it related to financial issue, lack of communication, no sparks,your spouse have found a new lover outside or other kind of issues that can cause your marriage to be on the rocks. Sit down and think of the problems. At the same time, jot down all the possibilities that are causing the marriage to slide down.

HOW - How can I save a marriage?

Five points to remember. No begging, no pestering, no crying, no fighting and no apologizing. You must be wondering why was these 5 Nos. It was because these are the top 5 mistakes for losing a marriage. I know this can be heartbreaking when the person is you love the most is moving out. Many people tend to do things out of their control, they may tried to beg them for forgiveness, bug their partner umpteen times on their phone or outside their house, get themselves drunk and make a scene by crying and screaming, fight or even apologized for everything even when they know it is not their fault. If you have tried these methods many times, it is not going to work anymore or perhaps they are finding hard to accept and that is why they are leaving you. Give them time and space to think of the relationship but do not wait until too long for someone to take over your place. Approach your spouse with the right ways at an appropriate time.

ACTIONS - Actions the right methods

There are many different ways to salvage a marriage. In fact,your marriage can be save and lasting if the right methods are actioned. Couples reunited everyday regardless of the situation. I believed yours could be saved too!


About the Author
Stop attempting the Top 5 Nos in killing your marriage. There are methods that can win back your love without begging, pestering,crying, fighting and apologizing.