by G.Thompson
Separating when things get rough can be a good idea. However will this separation help or hinder your marriage?
The answer is if it is done right a separation can help your marriage or relationship. Sometimes we all need to miss our water before we remember what good water taste like. It may sound corny but that is the way our emotions work. We often don't realize how important someone is until we miss them. What you once took for granted suddenly you begin to give an appreciation again.Yes a good separation for a week or two will jar your recollection as to why you got together in the first place.
I'm not suggesting that you totally freeze out your companion during this time. You want them to know you are alive and well. You can always send them an email or a letter just to keep in touch. You want them to understand that although you aren't in their presence you still care and still have them on your mind. You don't want them to feel like you have disposed of them. Always remember to tell them that you care and that you love them.
Think about all the things you miss not being in your mates presence. Think of the big things,as well as,the little things that you miss about them. You should either write these things down or record it as a voice memo.If you write it down you should contemplate what you wrote often. If you make a voice memo you should listen to what you recorded. By doing this you will be drawn back to your love one with a greater acceptance for them as a person.
Now once you have returned home, take your love one in your arms, look them in the eyes and tell them how much you missed them. It never hurts to bring a little gift for your baby. It doesn't have to be anything fancy just something that is meaningful to them.
Now that you know how it will feel without your mate, be sure to show how much you cherish them in your life. Take time to show them that you love them daily. Its the little things you do that will count.
If you find your marriage may be in serious trouble there is always help out there for you. If you are ready to change things for the better, even if your mate is not regardless of how bad thing seem. Get more advice how to save a relationship video or visit my blog stop-the-divorce-and-save-my-marriage
About the Author
G.Thompson is an educator and counselor, helping others for more than 34 years.
Separating when things get rough can be a good idea. However will this separation help or hinder your marriage?
The answer is if it is done right a separation can help your marriage or relationship. Sometimes we all need to miss our water before we remember what good water taste like. It may sound corny but that is the way our emotions work. We often don't realize how important someone is until we miss them. What you once took for granted suddenly you begin to give an appreciation again.Yes a good separation for a week or two will jar your recollection as to why you got together in the first place.
I'm not suggesting that you totally freeze out your companion during this time. You want them to know you are alive and well. You can always send them an email or a letter just to keep in touch. You want them to understand that although you aren't in their presence you still care and still have them on your mind. You don't want them to feel like you have disposed of them. Always remember to tell them that you care and that you love them.
Think about all the things you miss not being in your mates presence. Think of the big things,as well as,the little things that you miss about them. You should either write these things down or record it as a voice memo.If you write it down you should contemplate what you wrote often. If you make a voice memo you should listen to what you recorded. By doing this you will be drawn back to your love one with a greater acceptance for them as a person.
Now once you have returned home, take your love one in your arms, look them in the eyes and tell them how much you missed them. It never hurts to bring a little gift for your baby. It doesn't have to be anything fancy just something that is meaningful to them.
Now that you know how it will feel without your mate, be sure to show how much you cherish them in your life. Take time to show them that you love them daily. Its the little things you do that will count.
If you find your marriage may be in serious trouble there is always help out there for you. If you are ready to change things for the better, even if your mate is not regardless of how bad thing seem. Get more advice how to save a relationship video or visit my blog stop-the-divorce-and-save-my-marriage
About the Author
G.Thompson is an educator and counselor, helping others for more than 34 years.
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